You can see from the sample clips that these are real housewives, not porn actors or anything. We wonder how many people have seen these clips and someone they’ve known!

• She says things like, “I’m not in love with you anymore.”

That’s a pretty powerful statement and one that you should take seriously. Your wife might have a deep, loving feelings for you, intense feelings of passion for someone else like a secret lover can cause your wife to loose sight of her true feelings.

• When you ask her about a new man in her life(at work or somewhere), she says, “We’re just friends.”

It is not normal, nor healthy for your wife to suddenly be making new male friends, especially is your wife is spending more and more time with this new “friend”. Your wife may discover that she has a lot in common with this man, and that this new man friend understands them. Soon she’ll start talking about personal issues with him and this can quickly lead to her not being happy at home.Most men will jump at the chance to phsyically console a wife.

• Your wife seems to have a sudden need for privacy or secrecy.

If things the two of you used to share openly suddenly become private, pay close attention because there is no logical reason for this to suddenly happen after months or years or being in a relationship. She may start password protecting computer activity, her cell phone and credit card bills may suddenly be directed to email instead of the mailbox, her history is deleted on her computer and more. Another great way to tell if she is cheating on you, is if you ask why or attempt to find out information that used to be common knowledge between the two of you, she accuses you of snooping or trying to get in her business. She IS your business!

• She suddenly tells you that, “I need some space to figure my feelings for you.”

Married women who are cheating on their husbands and are involved with someone else will request more space, time alone or away from the family. They may say it is due to confusion over their feelings or sudden stress at work. This can be a sign that there is someone else and your wife is trying to figure out ways to have more freedom and see her secret lover.

• Her regular work habits suddenly change, causing missed appointments and lack of dedication to household/home duties.

She starts working late, going to work at odd hours or neglecting the usual things she does around the house because she’s too busy out of the home is very suspicious. Ask to start coming with her on her errands or make suprise visits to her work to bring her dinner when she is working late and see what her response it. You might even catch her in the act!

• She starts spending a large amount of time on the computer, more than she has in the past

In today’s world, with modern technology, a wife looking for an affair doesn’t even have to leave her home. The ease of internet chat rooms, online dating sites and secret email accounts has caused an alarming increase in emotional affairs. “Innocent” online flirting can quickly lead to in-person secret sexual flings, as she gets the attention she needs or craves.
If your wife is online more than usual, hanging out in chat rooms, staying on until after you go to bed and trying to hide the screen when you are around then you have reason to be alarmed.

• You think she is cheating because of your own fears and suspicions.

If you find yourself looking for excuses for your wife’s behavior or trying to convince yourself that she would never cheat then that is a warning sign. Your intuition is frequently one of the best indicators that something is wrong. If you suspect your wife might be cheating on you, do some investigating and then talk to her about what you’ve found. Do it in a way that is calm and courteous. Ask for honesty but be prepared for lies. It is a sad fact that women having affairs become excellent liars. Trust your gut instinct but get hard, cold proof also, by using one of the computer software programs designed to catch cheaters, or by using a GPS tracking device to keep an eye on where she is going.